
If you're reading this at 3 a.m., unable to sleep despite being exhausted, you're not alone. Insomnia affects millions of people worldwide, making it one of the most common sleep disorders. It's characterized by difficulty falling asleep, staying asleep, or waking up too early and being unable to get back to sleep. Left untreated, insomnia can lead to fatigue, irritability, difficulty concentrating, and a host of other problems that affect your daily life.
The good news? There are numerous effective treatments available. The key is finding the right approach for your specific situation.
We asked Dr. Suzanne Gorovoy, Sleep Expert, Clinical Psychologist, and Behavioral Sleep Medicine Specialist, what her experience shows about treating insomnia. She says: “Effective insomnia treatment starts with understanding the root cause — not just treating the symptom.” In other words, lasting sleep improvement begins when the whole person, not just the insomnia, is treated.
The most effective treatment for your insomnia depends on its underlying cause. Whether your sleep problems stem from stress, poor sleep habits, medical conditions, or other factors, there's likely a treatment that can help. Let's explore your options.
Before turning to other interventions, consider these fundamental lifestyle adjustments:
Maintain a consistent sleep schedule. Go to bed and wake up at the same time every day, even on weekends. This helps regulate your body's internal clock.
Create a sleep-friendly environment. Keep your bedroom cool, dark, and quiet. Reserve your bed for sleep and intimacy only, not for work, eating, or watching TV.
Watch your intake. Avoid caffeine and alcohol in the hours before bedtime. While alcohol might make you drowsy initially, it disrupts sleep quality later in the night.
Develop a wind-down routine. Give yourself 30-60 minutes before bed to relax with calming activities like reading, gentle stretching, or listening to soothing music.
Cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia, or CBT-I, is widely considered the first-line treatment for chronic insomnia, and for good reason. This structured program helps you identify and change negative thought patterns and behaviors that contribute to sleep problems.
During CBT-I, you'll work with a trained therapist to:
The beauty of CBT-I is that it produces lasting results. Unlike sleep medications, which stop working when you stop taking them, CBT-I teaches you skills that continue to benefit you long after treatment ends. Studies show that CBT-I works as well as or better than sleep medications, with effects that persist over time.
Stress and anxiety are common culprits behind insomnia. Learning to relax both your mind and body can make a significant difference in your ability to fall and stay asleep.
Meditation and mindfulness can help quiet racing thoughts and reduce the anxiety that often accompanies insomnia. Even a few minutes of meditation before bed can help.
Deep breathing exercises activate your body's relaxation response. Try the 4-7-8 technique: breathe in for 4 counts, hold for 7, and exhale for 8.
Progressive muscle relaxation involves tensing and then releasing different muscle groups throughout your body, helping you recognize and release physical tension.
Melatonin is a hormone your body naturally produces to regulate sleep-wake cycles. Taking melatonin supplements can be helpful, particularly if your insomnia is related to jet lag, shift work, or delayed sleep phase syndrome. It's available over-the-counter and is generally safe for short-term use, though you should discuss it with your doctor, especially if you're taking other medications.
Herbal supplements like valerian root, passionflower, and chamomile have been used traditionally to promote sleep. However, evidence for their effectiveness varies, and they can interact with medications, so consult your healthcare provider before trying them.
Sometimes medication is necessary, particularly for short-term insomnia or while you're working on other treatments like CBT-I.
Over-the-counter sleep aids typically contain antihistamines like diphenhydramine (Benadryl). While they can help in the short term, they often cause next-day grogginess and can become less effective over time.
Prescription sleep medications include drugs like zolpidem (Ambien), eszopiclone (Lunesta), and others. These can be effective but should be used cautiously and typically for short periods only, as they can have side effects and may become habit-forming.
Important considerations: Always use sleep medications under medical supervision. They're best used as a short-term solution while addressing the underlying causes of your insomnia through approaches like CBT-I or lifestyle changes.
Some people find relief through alternative therapies:
Acupuncture may help some individuals with insomnia, though more research is needed to confirm its effectiveness.
Massage therapy can promote relaxation and may improve sleep quality by reducing stress and muscle tension.
These approaches are generally safe to try alongside conventional treatments, but discuss them with your healthcare provider to ensure they're appropriate for your situation.
If you've been experiencing insomnia for more than a few weeks, or if it's significantly impacting your daily functioning, it's time to see a healthcare provider. They can:
Don't minimize the importance of addressing your insomnia. Quality sleep is essential for physical health, mental wellbeing, and quality of life.
Insomnia is frustrating and exhausting, but it's also highly treatable. Whether you start with lifestyle changes, pursue CBT-I, consider medications, or combine multiple approaches, the right treatment can help you achieve the restorative sleep you need.
Remember that improving your sleep often takes time and patience. What works for one person may not work for another, so be willing to try different approaches and give each one adequate time to work. With persistence and the right support, you can overcome insomnia and wake up feeling refreshed and ready to face your day.
Sweet dreams are within reach, sometimes you just need the right tools to find them.

Dr. Shiyan Yeo
Dr. Shiyan Yeo is a medical doctor with over a decade of experience treating patients with chronic conditions. She graduated from the University of Manchester with a Bachelor of Medicine and Surgery (MBChB UK) and spent several years working at the National Health Service (NHS) in the United Kingdom, several Singapore government hospitals, and private functional medicine hospitals. Dr. Yeo specializes in root cause analysis, addressing hormonal, gut health, and lifestyle factors to treat chronic conditions. Drawing from her own experiences, she is dedicated to empowering others to optimize their health. She loves traveling, exploring nature, and spending quality time with family and friends.